LOVE IS A TWO WAY STREET

TO BE OR NOT TO BE LOVED…that is an eternal question in life. Do we keep pumping out love despite the negative responses we get in return? Well yes however at some point we all need it in return. It fosters the level around us when we demand such things from people around us. Gratitude for the things us earth angels do is a kin to thanking God for that is why we do as we do. We are his tools and agents of loving change. When we demand the equal to be reflected back at us then we set forth our personal values and limits. We WILL NOT allow the negative to be sent. I for one am tired of the ungratefulness I receive for helping others. I am unfortunately a magnet to my opposites and aim to change that. I do know it is because I have allowed such treatment because I was being kind to them. Well I apologize needlessly if I cannot tolerate the ill treatment and say so because how else does one change if you do not know your actions are wrong. It is called constructive criticism and is alright to give…even if the other does not want to hear it. By doing so we protect our rights, show courage and our own personal growth. We do not give out negative by putting up a hand and saying ‘no’. It is within our human rights after all.

For example during an argument I mirror the other person by repeating the words they use in a calm manner. The calmer I am the angrier the other gets as they seek a reaction. Then when coupled with their own negative words the other person suddenly cannot handle what they give out. Don’t give it out I say as I smile and continue loving the best I can in the moment. I protect myself and values doing so plus I show them I am the calm one. The angry one is the one with the problem not I. In the end though I still grow weary of this being my only type of person but I am in hell after all. Such is my fate. I minister to these types and must expect it. My biggest problem until now was folding and being submissive to such types. They grew in their negativity by my reinforcing their angry values. By standing up for myself they were confronted with a wall for the first time. No I love you and you give negativity…I will not allow your energy to encompass me as I shall encompass you with the much stronger white love. Thank you and good bye I suppose if one cannot tolerate my new stance. Namaste and blessings if it knocks the loving sense back into you. Let’s dance shall we?